LATE NIGHT SELF MOTIVATION

Normally, i`ll be sleeping by this hour. But right now, i just can`t sleep so i kinda considering of to post something. Unfortunately, am not sure what should i write or what should i share. So i was convinced to quote some of my answers from ASK.FM which i think that is very helpful for my self motivation and am very gladful if you guys find it useful too.

1. Has anyone in your life ever betrayed you?

When life pressures you, you hv the power to let it changes you or you are the one that control everything. Betraying is a choice. Ppl are not always nice. Some are there only to brighten your dreams, and destroying your reality. Living in a world with no betrayals is fake. The most vital thing is that it's not about the betrayal, but how we deal with the betrayer. It actually defines who you are.

2. Whut you think people deserve second chance?

Life is risks. It's acknowledging the past, but it keeps looking forward. It's taking a chance that we will make mistakes, but believing that we all deserve to be forgiven. So yes, no matter how hurt and how hard it was, we all deserve for a second chance, though it is a ticket for ppl to hurt us again. Sometimes the right thing to do is the one that hurts the most. Just hv faith 😅😁😊

3. Are u still okay?

Hating is a waste of time because it requires for you to give a crap about things that aren't worth the craps you are giving. When people can walk away from you, let them walk. Don't try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring for you, coming to see you, or staying attached to you. When people can walk away, let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. Broken dreams are not the end of the road. They are the beginning of new dreams and a new direction in life. You just need to be strong enough to take the first step. You can't always decide who walks into your life, but you can decide which window to throw them off.

4. What is the formula of happiness?

Learn from your past, move on, and grow stronger. People are fake and your trust lasts longer. Do what yo have to do, but always stay true and never let anyone get the best of you. Never let what anybody says distract you from your goal. No matter how bad someone treats you brush it off. Remember loneliness is designed to help you discover who you are, and to stop looking outside yourself for your worth. Keep the smile, leave the tension, feel the joy, forget the worry, hold the peace, and leave the pain. Being happy doesn`t mean everything is perfect, it means you`ve decided to see beyond the imperfections. Do not retaliate back against those who antagonize you, stay calm and rise above. Take your obstacles and turn them into opportunities. Life is short, live it. Love is rare, grab it. Anger is bad, dump it . Fear is awful, face it . Memories are sweet, cherish it. Learn things from those around you, enjoy life with those who stick beside you, and never underestimate those below you. Be happy ; )

5. Share anything pls?

When all doors behind you get shut, it`s a sign that you need to stop looking back and start moving forward. Do not grieve over the past, for it is gone and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Never stop from rising. Anyone can give up, its the easiest thing ever. But to hold it together when everyone else thinks you had fall apart is the true strength .

6. Stay or leave?

 Hmm unless you heal the root of a problem, the pain will not go away. You can hide from it, but the problem stays until you dig deep. So its depends on everyone choice on hw they overcome their obstacles either to stay or leave. Life is not what you take, its not about the friends you might of made, or love that is gone. Life is what you give, its not about the stupid things you did. Its not about the way things could have been, its about keeping in move and moving on. Its all about our own self .

7. Is it easier to forgive or forget?

Both are quite hard. Some can forgive easily and keep on going but there are some that will have grudge on us. Indeed all of us have our own path . We will meet many ppl from different walk of life. Good or bad memories are our experiences in life, which are copied and photographed in our thoughts for our entire lifetime. There will be a time when we'll be alone and our memories keep flashing out with a smile. So its not that if we don`t forget them we hate them, but it`s actually teach us to learn forgiving others ツ

I`m done, the rest of the answers are not really important. I really hope that you will be inspired 😇 I want to watch Kdrama so that i can fell asleep. LOL. Good night qtpie.

Lots of love.